Are you a daygamer or nightgamer? Which is best?

Emerzon · 2013-06-18T17:50:19+00:00

There is no best, they both have their advantages as well as disadvantages. I'll try to explain as best I can.

Advantages:

Day game: The greatest advantage to day game is simple; you are immediately much more of a genuine and trusted individual when you approach during a casual situation, albeit requires much more confidence and language/conversation skills to cold approach during the day (which is why the PUA communitiy struggles with day game). The problem of being "that guy i met at a bar" is a real one that hurts nightgamers in the long term and is something we can definitely get better at with practice and increased seduction technique. Women put a LOT of significance into where they met someone, especially men their attracted to. If you walk up to a woman in a casual setting, like say, a shopping mall, and successfully display your intentions, you'll be amazed by the amount of significance she'll put into that new relationship. She will get the feelings of serendipity which women salivate over the thought of.
Night Game: I feel that the advantages of night game are pretty obvious in nature. With even low amounts of skill and experience, you can move from approach-to-close in minimal amounts of time. Obviously with more experience and skill, this time will be even shorter with more impressive closes (aka k and f-closes). Also, Another glaring advantage of night game is the fact that much less friction is likely to exist. Friction means a reason for a girl to reject you that you cannot control, like already being in a relationship. Girls are at night clubs and bars to meet men for the most part, which in contrast to day game, is simply not the case.

Disadvantages:

Day game: Like i said earlier, friction will always be your biggest enemy for day game. Any HB walking around during the day is most likely going to have some reason why she cannot date you, regardless of if shes attracted to you. The biggest reason here is always prior relationship, but it could be anything, and remember, never take rejection personally. I'd say out of 10 HB's walking around during the day, 2 of them will be single, which in my opinion, is still good enough odds to meet as many attractive women as possible. Another disad that i touched on earlier is the fact that your experience and skills in all areas of seduction need to be pretty well polished when practicing day game for many reasons that I can go into another time if you want to PM me. Don't let this scare you off though, practice practice practice.
Night game: Again, I said this earlier, but the whole "that guy I met at the bar" problem is by far the biggest problem for nightgamers. I'd say the vast majority of things you read on seddit will be about how to get around this paradox of being a "typical guy" and is something you can absolutely be good at in time. Some other disads with night game include: Harsh rejections for various reasons, loud settings making it hard to communicate, lack of potential (some cities have terrible night life), etc.

There can be a lot touched up on the ads and disads of both day and night game, but i feel these are the most glaring. Hope this helps.

2013-06-19T01:30:45+00:00

They are best used in tandem. Use day game to get dates and build a social circle. Then bring dates and friends who are women with you to a night game venue.

Title	Are you a daygamer or nightgamer? Which is best?
Author	stevejabba
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	June 18, 2013 8:28 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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