I can't seem to keep to any of the girls I date. What am I doing wrong?

Confident_Me · 2013-06-25T03:25:17+00:00

You're getting invested way to early and they are bored. It sounds like you went from being a fun confident dude to a guy who wants a relationship in 3 dates. That's like going 100 mph and hitting a brick wall in a woman's eyes. What are your hobbies? What makes you fun? Never ever stop dating a girl even if you've been married for 45 years because at some point someone is going to get complacent and lose interest. It also sounds like you are jumping steps and not building yourself up. You can get her number and a date but then you lose them.

noel20 · 2013-06-25T04:40:05+00:00

First off, sorry bro. It can be rough to get rejected like that.

I had a similar issue once upon a time and the issue I was too needy--it sounds like it could be your issue too.

Good new is what you are doing (PU) is the best thing that you can do to help stop being needy. Other things would be make sure that you have physical hobbies, supportive friends, and take ownership of what you want. If you want something more serious, keep that in mind when you are dating and make the first date about really seeing if this is a woman you want around in 6 months, a year, a lifetime.

This is a harder thing to work on because of the subtle aspects of what creates 'neediness'. Keep your head up and keep plugging away--you'll find her.

Title	I can't seem to keep to any of the girls I date. What am I doing wrong?
Author	keetbeep
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	June 25, 2013 12:34 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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