Texting between dates (Need Help)

8IIIIIIIID · 2013-07-10T05:03:23+00:00

I personally stay away from texting, especially when I don't know the girl well. I'm currently in the same predicament with a girl that I slept with recently. I want to text her but I have nothing of any real merit to say. Women love to anticipate a date, so I would continue doing what you are doing by setting up different outings. Just try to meet up more often if possible. Sorry ai can't help more but this is an area that I have trouble with as well.

Thorjn · 2013-07-10T15:39:26+00:00

Use the time to get to know them a bit, let it flow like a conversation. Depending on her texting-importance-level, she will either respond in kind, or appear uninterested.

Personally I text all the time between dates. Not after a date, but the next day. good morning, how are you, ect. then I state that I had a wonderful time the evening before and would love to go out again (usually). Then I let the conversation ebb and flow throughout the coming days, just talking, asking questions, answering questions, until I feel like i know them pretty well.

This works well for me because I can keep a conversation going across many topics for many hours, and the person I want to date usually also has that characteristic. I once went on a date with a chick who could barely string two thoughts together. Needless to say, that date was rather boring.

So all in all, do what works for you. Text if you want, or don't. It depends on the person.

nehifish · 2013-07-10T08:35:15+00:00

Calling works best, atleast for me. Since you can express your personality much better than through texts. But a thumb rule I always follow is keep the dates pretty much close between eachother. Since I work during the weekdays, I tend to just have a week between each date. Which makes maintaining attraction quite easy, since during the week after she will be thinking on and off about what we did during the date.

throwaweight7 · 2013-07-10T13:43:27+00:00

This may be awful advice, but every text I send a woman I'm interested in is meant to lead to sexting.

Title	Texting between dates (Need Help)
Author	limerea
Upvotes	8
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Date	July 10, 2013 2:23 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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