One of the tenets of seduction is that its a numbers game and that rejection is actually good for you--it will bring you closer to the girl that is more compatible with you. In that case, polarization becomes an issue, how do you dress or act so that you can polarize your target as quickly as possible. For example, I have been told that since I'm brown, that's one trait that can polarize a girl--some will want nothing to do with me, no matter what I say, and some will want me despite having my foot in my mouth. It's interesting because that has happened to me on an occasion, a girl explicitly said "I think you're so hot because you're Indian", which was weird, but you get the idea. So, aside from tattoos or hair dyes, how can I express my personality and polarize as quickly as possible.