What age did you lose your virginity and under what circumstances? 21 year old virgin here and wondering.

Wheysteve · 2018-10-26T13:17:24+00:00

Honestly, just focus on yourself and how YOU want it to go down.

kaliche451 · 2018-10-26T13:20:28+00:00

Your Path is your path, me being a promiscuous teen has nothing to do with you

rektum_expander · 2018-10-26T13:27:57+00:00

Honestly, I never sought out sex. At 15 girls started to find me desirable, but I didn’t know anything about sex. At 17 the girls just kind of took matters into their own hands. Become desirable, act on opportunity.

Popeman79 · 2018-10-26T13:54:39+00:00

I lost it when I was about to turn 17, to my first gf. We ended up being together for 4 years. I was clueless at the time and she made all the moves to seduce me. I also pretended it wasn't my first time, if it makes you feel better. I enjoyed it but don't have a specific recollection of it. This night was not special, maybe because I lied about it not being my first time.

I know guys who lost it when they were fucking 12 years old, others in their 20s. Honestly it doesnt matter. For reference, between 17 and 24 my n-count was like 3 girls. After that it soared tremendously. The 30s are a man's best years, so your job is to get there in the best shape possible in life. You still have time.

Regarding virginity I don't think it matters much for guys, as we don't have this emotional connection. A friend of mine from Brazil told me his dad took him to see a prostitute when he was 16, and that's how he lost it. I'm not from Brazil so I don't know if it's common there. After that this friend become the chaddiest chad and has fucked countless girls.

paperchris · 2018-10-26T15:48:21+00:00

Good questions.

31, with my wife after our wedding. I waited awhile.

Yea, though rare, guys like me are still around.

Was I happy with how it happened? Best 30 seconds of my life up to that point anyway!

Any regrets for me? Not sure to be honest. I think about that question from time to time and I alwyas end up with, the jury's still out.

[deleted] · 2018-10-26T17:55:48+00:00

I was 18 and a freshman in college. I'd done a little bit with girls earlier in my first semester, like handjobs and getting naked and shit. I had a date party and needed to invite a girl. The night went well, we drank some wine, and I went back with her and she blew me with her roommate asleep in the bed next to us. She was pretty inexperienced too so I didn't get much out of it, ended up jerking off onto her to get off.

A week later as part of hazing I do the Edward 40 Hands challenge. I win by drinking two 40s in 8 minutes. As soon as my hands are untied, I check my phone: I have a message from the earlier girl. She says she wants to fuck me tonight. I'm like, wow, aggressive--it's like porn. Anyways, the alcohol slowly kicks in and I black out hard that night. I vaguely come back in by like 2AM and the night is a haze. Luckily the girl stayed up waiting for me to respond, and luckily I can text fine while blackout. She was pretty drunk too by time we met up, almost as drunk as me. We find a single-person bathroom on campus (can't fuck in either of our rooms because of roommates) and I fuck her raw on the floor for two hours without cumming. We go back to her room and sleep in her bed together (her dorm was close and mine was far as fuck and I was way too drunk to go) and then fall asleep. Wake up sober, her roommates out of the room, we're both naked, and we fuck for real this time.

I was a skinny armed supplicating fag when I first got laid, not sure what the girl saw in me that made her think I was so special. It was a huge confidence boost how much she eventually pursued me, and I plated her and some other girls after her. Anyways, I got a lot better at girls thereafter and pull much more now, and that girl lost 30 pounds, dyed her hair blonde, and became very fucking hot. Ended up LTRing her after her being a plate for like 10 months, and to this day we're together but she lets me fuck other girls and so my n-count is closer to 20 than 1 these days. Ironically the day we first banged she was a HB5 chubster who couldn't keep a dude (low n-count, but two FWBs that failed to turn into LTRs for her) and I was a beta that couldn't talk to girls to save my life. Today we look like a generic alpha couple. Man, time flies by...

Tylerjjs · 2018-10-26T14:22:05+00:00

Wasn’t meaningful. Sex isn’t all that.

GAndGMethod · 2018-10-26T14:27:25+00:00

13 to my girlfriend in the summer heading into my freshmen year of high school.

Family went on vacation, I stayed home had house to myself and invited her over.

Knew I was going to get laid because she was giving blowjobs previous to us having sex for the first time.

FixYourselfFirst · 2018-10-26T14:44:09+00:00

Who fucking cares about the past? What is done is done. Focus on the future.

dobbekz · 2018-10-26T15:33:32+00:00

Losing your virginity under TRP will get you depressed for a while.

Dude. I've lost my virginity 5 days ago. Literally. 5 fucking days ago. I'm 22, so we're not that different. The experience was so fucking enlightening. I was shocked with sex and everything I knew about it was shattered to pieces.

I've caught oneties to this girl and until now I'm still trying to manage them but still feeling like shit.

dobbekz · 2018-10-26T16:02:58+00:00

I was 18. Had plenty of chances earlier but wanted a girl I actually liked a lot (I was pretty gay/blue pilled back then lol).

I was having a house party with some friends, had way too much to drink so I decided to get in bed and go to sleep. Woke up getting blown by a female friend (I knew she had a thing for me), kinda blacked out during, and then came back around with her riding me.

So yeah, not too special.

NolanKnowstheTruth · 2018-10-26T16:13:32+00:00

Your insecurities aren't helping. Fix your teeth and take care of yourself more and the sex will come.

I was getting regular blowjobs from my older sister best friend starting when I was 9. Full sex started a few years later.

Honestly, she helped shape me, build my confidence and help me understand what girls want/like.

[deleted] · 2018-10-26T16:37:04+00:00

Your insecurities are'nt good man. Who cares?

This is your journey and yours alone. Why do you care when others lost it? Does it matter? Does it help you?

[deleted] · 2018-10-26T16:46:06+00:00

Focus on yourself really. You can't expect some hot chick to save you from your crippling depression. Find ways to enjoy life and let people who bring out the best of you in your life.

XT3M3 · 2018-10-26T18:11:18+00:00

while on vacation with family friend while i was 16. both parents were out and fighting turned to her giving me a lapdance and that became sex. we had on and off flings for a bit.

Title	What age did you lose your virginity and under what circumstances? 21 year old virgin here and wondering.
Author	dobbekz
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Date	October 26, 2018 1:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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