So my recent experience at the bars in a new city has been very similar to this guys [post]. (http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/mjufe/bars_clubs_flaky_numbers_mean_go_for_the_lay_or/) For example, last night a buddy and I went to one of the only country bars in the city. We are in a very urban and fairly large city so its really just country music and a country theme, not a ton of actual country folk.

Anyway, I've learned to country swing dance recently and danced with a few cute girls. I ended up really teaching girls to dance since little to none of the girls in the country bar (quite ironically) actually knew how to country swing. 2 of them (~HB7's) ended up being pretty fun to dance with and I ended up developing some good banter with. I mostly teased them about how no one in the city can dance and calling them out when they doubted I knew/could teach them how to dance.

After dancing for a song or two with these 2 particular girls I asked for their number. Both seemed receptive and happily gave me their number. I left shortly after only because the last train to our apartment leaves around 1am. However, I texted both girls, complementing them on their dance skills and saying how I had fun dancing with them. One girl texted a fairly neutral response and but the other was far more positive. I asked both to grab a drink or coffee later in the week but then received no response from either the next day.

So here is where my frustration comes in, and a female perspective would be great. Were these girls simply caught up in the moment? Did I not develop a strong enough connection/investment through conversation? Admittedly, the whole interaction with both girls was no more than 10 minutes.

Lastly for those of you who do have success getting non-flaky numbers from bars what makes the difference?