It was a good friend's birthday we'll call him Tom. Tom bought a keg and decided to have a house party. Me and another good friend named Mark were asked to invite people.

I invited 20~ people, branched out, in hopes that they'll return party invites in the future.

Me and Mark got to Tom's house early, the 6ish all close guys that were there had birthday cake/set up the keg and beer pong table. People started arriving, horrible ratio for the first little bit but we weren't too worried because it was in the Country.

Party got going, more people arrived, and an athletic HB8 that I had relations with in the past arrived. She was standing talking to the female friend she came with awkwardly not drinking anything, assumed she wanted to drink from the keg but didn't want to without permission from Tom. I went over, started a bit of back and forth. They both wanted to drink keg, and had $20/card for Tom, so I left it by the rest of the cake, and took HB8 out to the keg while her friend went to socialize.

HB8 and I were at the shed where the keg was kept, forgot we put a padlock on it. (Decided to just run a jug back and forth from the fridge in case someone tried to steal it.) We went on a search for the key, but first we grabbed some shots from the cooler that was on the deck. We ended up searching for 30 min for the key, it kept getting passed around by the 5 other guys. We finally found the guy with the key, said he just filled up the jug so we went to the fridge. Drank some inside together, rebuilding attraction that was once there. I left her to not appear needy, the attraction to everyone was obvious, Tom told me I could use his bedroom and where condoms were.

I came back a little bit later, and kept going with HB8. Made a move to go somewhere else, she said she would meet me outside. I went and grabbed some more from the fridge, went outside and we were sitting a little bit away from the house. Lots of kino, peck kisses and stuff. I was worried that she was getting too drunk, she ended up spilling her beer on me, and I called it quits. Didn't want to babysit her or be that guy that takes advantage.

Went back to having a good time, and went to talk to Dylan. Dylan recently broke up with his girlfriend a couple weeks ago, and were now just being bestfriends because a lot of their friends are mutual. He also was/is a sedditor, and we were talking about targets. He brought his ex to the party, and was telling me how great it was he didn't have to talk to her once/had potential with another girl at the party. Dylan and I also recently re-became good friends, we had a fight and didn't talk much for a few months. In the past, two times girls that I did stuff with got hired at the same store me and Dylan were at, he went in and tried to get both of them. (I don't blame him, they were both pretty hot.) Dylan leaves to go play beerpong or something.

Party keeps going, end up playing Frisbee with his ex. I should note that I went on a date that didn't go so well with this girl before they started dating. The frisbee went into bushes, so we were walking around them looking for it. End up holding hands, which leads to hug, which leads to making out. I broke away a few times, saying we shouldn't do this, but it keeps going. We were naked and about to fuck, but I was pretty drunk at this point and we were both naked/she was getting me hard. People didn't know where we went, they come looking, we pretend we weren't together and rejoin the party.

Later Dylan passes out in his car, me and the girl he was hitting on help him into the backseat of the car, make a little bed/clean up the puke on his face and get him situated.

Me and his ex are outside, talking about how he never knows his limits, and we go off again. Just laying looking at the stars, to be honest I didn't want anything to happen and she asked "do you mind if we just cuddle?" and I said of course so that's all we did. Nothing exciting happened after that.

Next day drama inevitably came, we were talking and she wanted to tell Dylan, so I let him know that she was going to call him in a bit to tell him what happened, and that I was sorry. (He knew that we went missing.) I'm not sure what she told him, but from what I gather she told him she didn't want to do anything and I made her.

What's the gentleman/alpha/right thing to do here? She threw me under the bridge and blamed it all on me, which isn't true. She made the first kiss, I escalated and she escalated right back, taking it right up to the fclose.