Hey guys,

I was just looking over my photos from a world wide party vacation I just had and got inspired to write this post about pushing though tiredness and going out regardless of how you feel. Ive visited and partied in 12 cities in the last 7 weeks and I have been going out every single night non stop. The interesting thing when you are travelling to new cities is that you want to make the absolute most out of the limited time you have – so you are more likely to push though your emotions and take action – these always lead to the best experiences in life. Now to look a little deeper into this, what happened was my TIME was limited, so I wanted to make the most out of it… Isn’t that what our entire life is all about anyway?

I know most of you don’t want to accept this, but the only way to get better at this is to actually go out and approach girls. You cant learn how to pick up girls online, its impossible. You can read all you want, but its not going to sink in and become a reality unless you go out and take action. I try to go out at least 2-3 times per week, which I think ANYONE can do, regardless of their work schedule.

As humans, we are hard-wired to exert the least amount of energy required. This is an evolutionary tool we have that would help us survive back in the tribal days when we would struggle to have food, and needed to conserve as much energy as we could to increase our chance of survival. This is why we have a hard wired tendency to do the minimum of what’s needed in most aspects of our lives.

The difference between successful people and losers is one thing: TAKING MASSIVE ACTION!

Sometimes after working a full day on a Friday, the last thing I want to do is go out to a bar or club. I imagine myself there and just think to myself, there’s no way I will have enough energy to have a good time. The thought of staying in, rugging up and watching a movie or gluing myself to my laptop seems MUCH more appealing. My body, emotions and feelings tell me to stay in. But you know what I do? I tell my emotions to SHUT THE F**K UP and I go out.

Seriously, I know so many guys that want to get better at pick up, and they just don’t go out enough.

Let me tell you something, no one ever got successful at ANYTHING while sitting at home being stimulated by their TV.

If you want to get good at this you gotta push through and CONSISTENTLY go out. Just like approaching girls, your emotions are telling you not to, but you do it anyway right? (at least I hope you do, haha)

To summarise here:

You need to go out and take action, otherwise you will never internalize the concepts we teach and the discussions that happen here on seddit, if you don't go out, you will never learn how to naturally attract girls. All my success in this has come from going AGAINST my emotions and pushing through. Sleep is for losers, don’t be a loser :P haha

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