Meeting up with a lady friend later. How do I stop feeling anxious?

awwyeah123456789 · 2013-09-27T19:36:26+00:00

You need to remind yourself that not matter how attractive and awesome you think she is, she still is a girl that has issues, farts, probably takes huge smelly dumps. Honestly, just need to remember that shes human too, and you shouldnt be anymore nervous meeting with her than you would a friend. Yeah theres always excitement of what it could lead to, but worry about that later in the date, beforehand just tell yourself how awesome you are and smile.Tell yourself that shes the lucky one to be seeing you tonight, and you are going out with her to enjoy yourself too, not just to please her. Imagine not that you are going out with her, but you are letting her tag along in fun night that you might do alone because of how cool you are.

HappyJerk · 2013-09-27T19:45:07+00:00

Just assume that nothing is going to happen. She's not going to like you, the date is going to fail. It's a foregone conclusion. So now you can just go there with no pressure!

kekspernikai · 2013-09-28T00:57:45+00:00

It may sound strange and take some time to get the full effect, but I like to meditate. I only do it for 10-15 minutes before I go out, but it forces me to calm down, to evaluate why I feel the way I do and face it, and in a way, push the reset button on my day and go out feeling like I just woke up before I worried about all this.

slopoker · 2013-09-27T19:17:15+00:00

Jack off before you go out. Seriously

Title	Meeting up with a lady friend later. How do I stop feeling anxious?
Author	Kyoni
Upvotes	6
Comments	8
Date	September 27, 2013 7:11 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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