"I think you could really be one of my best friends one day."
(Disclaimer - this goes against the over macho, super alpha guy mentality, but let's face it, how many of you are actually succeeding with women?)
Here's my rational:
1) It's really easy to say, you approach any girl, ask her her name and a few bullshit questions, then you just drop it on her. No pain, no fear of rejection, nada.
2) You're in control. You've just instantly friend-zoned a girl. Now she's wondering what is wrong with her looks and personality. Now she has something to prove to YOU. You've successfully given her enough information to where she knows you're not interested, and that will drive her crazy.
3) It's still friendly. You just paid her a compliment.
4) Shes comfortable with you. You defused any tension where she might go strait to rejection in order to get herself out safe. She now can think of you in her life, and she will guaranteed be more willing to open up.
4) YOU'RE not in the friend zone. You can easily, and very quickly I might add, segway this into a close. For example, you approach a girl in a more casual setting, how about a mall. You bullshit for a minute or two, then drop this line. She's "flattered," says some awkward rhetort back, then you casually slide into "I'd love to take you on a date sometime. Let me get your phone number.
Easy as that. Now she's in a position where she wants to know more about you, and if she agrees to this date, now she has to prove herself to you.
This also works in f-close situations. Say you're at a club and you use this line to defuse the conversation. This girl, at this club, is now comfortable with you, and you've barely spoken 20 words to her - tops. This stranger is comfortable with you. She WILL go home with you over the macho super alpha being passive aggressive.
Trust me - try it. What has your game got to lose?
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