Basically, I lifted last year, didn't make much of a change except less skinny now (still skinny fat or whatever am I) . I stopped for some reasons, but I want to go back again at it.

Should I wait till I get a banging body or make my moves?

In the face I'm attractive, but being not tall I either get ignored or get IOIs, but even then I'm never really sure if they are just looking at me randomly or they are interested. My head always keeps saying to me that I should wait and get into monk mode.

The ideal for me is to not even approach, and reach the point where they will approach me.