I realized that with a last girl I was with wasn't very exciting or fun at times. I often wished that I could come up with some exciting and spontaneous idea that we could have a blast doing so and have an amazing time together. But every idea I really came up with were kind of basic date ideas.

I want to have fun, be adventurous and spontaneous, and ultimately live life to it's fullest. I guess I just don't know how to do so or what step to take in order to make this possible. I've always had things I have wanted to do and have a made a list including places to travel, concerts to see, hobbies to try, and experiences to have.

Other than doing so for myself, I feel like it's harder to do so with women. I want to be able to pick up a girl and have her giddy with excitement that is close to the same level of my own excitement. I want to be able to be spontaneous and adventurous with crazy ideas popping in my head of places to go and things to try. But I can never think of anything.

This might be a difficult question and the answer probably lies within myself. But I would like to hear what some of you did to become more fun and exciting especially with women. And how can I achieve this goal for myself?

Life is short and there are many women out there who are itching for someone exciting to come into their lives. I want to be this person for myself, my friends, family, and women in my life. Thanks!