[FR] Happy with my night at a party. What can I do better next time?

Royale28 · 2013-10-26T16:28:42+00:00

Honestly from about the second half of the FR down, this FR just degenerated into a list of excuses. Read your FR again and look at the reasons why you didn't find someone to have fun with that night.

2013-10-27T00:34:30+00:00

SO: my question is, should I worry about my (non)efforts to hook up with any of them?

PS. I have no experience hooking up with girls at all

If that's the case, then I wouldn't worry about it too much. When I first started going out, I spent a lot of time simply learning to be comfortable in party environments. I tried to approached, but I didn't escalate sexually. Sure, I was making excuses, but fuck it, I went at my own pace. I know myself, and I know that I wasn't strong enough at the time to tackle many things at the same time.

If you're getting at a point where you simply know you're making excuses to avoid taking action, then it's a problem. For now, don't worry about it. You were social, you met new people, and it looks like you had fun.

Or will girls see me enjoying myself and come to me?

Laughter is contagious. People, especially girls, will want to be around with you if you're a happy, positive person (as long as you're doing it for yourself). Being able to just have fun with yourself is a pretty fundamental skill. It's not the be-all, end-all, but it's damn important. Thing is, you can't rely on girls to make the move for you. Some girls will initiate, but for the most part, you gotta make the first move. You still gotta take action.

Next time, try to raise the stakes a little bit more. Push yourself a little bit further. But don't worry about it too much. Rome wasn't built in a day. All in all, it sounds like it was a good night.

anhtice · 2013-10-26T14:45:13+00:00

Just keep doing what you're doing. If youre fun, girls will be attracted to you. You built the attraction, that's good (and done right) But you will have to make a move eventually. Girls usually dont initiate.

You usually don't wanna hook up with a girl that gives it up the first night anyway...

You made a great first impression Networking is key and it's bad for longevity to just try to get n their pants since word goes around fast..

For instance, when girls go to the bathroom together, they're talking about you. In addition have a lot of female friends will help you with that.

Title	[FR] Happy with my night at a party. What can I do better next time?
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Date	October 26, 2013 11:58 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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