patience exercises

sedditdee · 2013-10-30T03:43:08+00:00

Experience usually creates a sense of when to push and when to back off.

It's useful to ask whether pushing for something (or someone) will bring you closer to, or farther from, what you want.

In the context of seduction, having something more important/fascinating/valuable to you than a particular woman (or women generally) is always a smart idea. Allow women to be a pleasant distraction from the rest of your life, not the other way around.

In other words, if you find yourself emotionally manipulated by women, take that as a cue to live a more emotionally compelling life, with or without women. The outcome will also be that women will find you more attractive, partly because you're less easy to manipulate than 99% of the male population (who are -- not at all coincidentally -- living quietly, desperately boring lives).

ejiboo · 2013-10-30T03:12:29+00:00

i have problems with this as well! i think the best thing for impatience is some sort of activity that will occupy you. as long as you're having fun, you won't be constantly thinking about whatever it is that you're impatient about...uh, i think.

pluple · 2013-11-01T03:59:43+00:00

Not really exercises, but here you go:

Care less. If you care less about what you are doing you won't feel that much pressure to get to your goal.

Care more. Sounds strange, but in my experience, If I really care about the end result and I feel the best way to achieve it is by waiting. I have less of a hard time to do so.

Title	patience exercises
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Date	October 30, 2013 2:13 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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