Hi fellow sedditors,

This is the first time I write a FR as something I don't understand happened and maybe someone can figure out why and help everyone that had been in this situation in the past (if any).

To introduce myself I consider myself an average player with days where my game is better and days where it is worse. I try to improve after each interaction by noting down what did I do good and what did I do wrong (and on upcoming interactions correct the latter). I really recommend this to anyone who wants to improve. I do not rely on canned routines and such, just try to be myself and try to improve, specially my inner game.

Anyways, into the FR and trying to keep it short and not getting into much details. I went to dance class today and after that I had the hype for dancing and went to a club where they put this particular latin dance music. There my friend started dancing with a girl and I did the same with another. There was very good vibe, some teasing, some chat... After dancing a couple of songs we sat and started talking. And after that we moved alone to another venue (more electronic music oriented) and talked outside for almost an hour. It was really smooth, we joked, we had fun, there was really really deep connection between us when we touched some topics that, surprisingly, we were very fond of and very connected and there was a lot of kino and escalation, I went for the kiss twice, she didn't wanted it but neither she backed off so we were all the time touching and hugging etc. (this girl comes from a country which my past experiences show that sometimes it is hard to get the kiss)... there was also a lot of visual contact, we exchanged phones in the middle of the night, we had a funny framework together as if we were married and we even scheduled our first date for this first Friday.

Believe when I say that I have #-close, K-close and even F-close with girls where I displayed less than half the game I did here and where I felt we had much much less connection.

Then... THEN... we entered this venue, we started dancing together, lot of smile, lot of touching etc... Some friends of her had to come and finally one of them arrived (her flat-mate, a gay-friend, her bestie). So she greeted him, I introduced myself and we talked a little bit, then we went to the dance floor the 3 of us... and she just started dancing with her best friend totally ignoring me. WTF?! I just did like I didn't gave a shit and started dancing inside my world but after 3 songs or so I started to get tired (I was tired from the beginning tbh) and just greeted them goodbye and left.

Now before someone says it is true that maybe it would have been better to just start gaming other girls to show that I don't care (although politely leaving I think it should be good enough if you show that you really don't care and you want just to leave). But that is not the question. The question is why on earth she was so close, so connected, so physical escalated etc etc and instantly she started ignoring me and just focused on dancing/talking with her best friend? But completely ignoring means not even looking at me. It just bugs me that I don't know the answer because if I knew it I could see what I did wrong but I just saw perfect and honest interaction (one of the best I have ever displayed) and I am quite critical with me as I can always find where I fail.

Thank you for reading sedditors!