I met a girl at college, hanged out, and then fucked.

After sex, she started turning down my sexual advances, i.e half-assed kiss, half-assed hug, no reception to physical touching, and I assumed she's doing this because of her guilt towards her boyfriend.

She went on a trip for 3 days during which we didn't talk. She came back and asked me to come over to eat some homemade meal we prepared a few days before she left. She started shittesting and trying to get me into her frame, but I could easily spot them and dodged them.

I acted cold, didn't kino escalate, and was fairly distant, like asking typical questions, "how was your party" blablaabl. One hour into the interaction and she's still hanging around bringing random shit up. I took that as investment from her part and somehow I'm back into my cocky and teasing attitude. She started casually touching me on my thighs and shoulders everytime I crack a joke or something.

Her roommate comes in, and a few minutes later I suggest we all learn how to sing (her roommate studies opera). It was a lot of fun. I was teasing and flirting with both of them the whole time. Then my potential plate goes back to being a good girl (IOIs, compliant, demonstrating my value to her roommate...etc etc).

I tell them goodbye and leave soon after. I thought we were back on track and next time I'm seeing her, everything will be better.

However.

I was heading to her apartment today to grab some stuff I forgot yesterday, and I bumped into a friend of mine. I ask him what's up and he tells me he's seeing this chick. It turned to be her (what are the fucking odds). I brushed it off and said yeah, cool.

I went into her apartment, her roommate buzzed me in, and then she sends me a selfie with this guy asking, "Do you know him?!" I said, "Yeah, he told me u're eating macarone tonight or something, have fun"... she said, "Thanks!" And that was it.

I absolutely have no fucking clue the fuck I should do. Tomorrow she's going on a trip for a week. I'm so not talking to her during this entire week. But still... what the fuck happened guys?

I have dates lined up next week and some more potential plates hopefully. But this girl fucked me up cuz I have to admit I have a mild case of oneties with her cuz she's the first I slept with. But I'm ready to next or dread game her.... the only problem is I don't know how to proceed from here as it's not an LTR, which is the typical case of dread games and soft nexting...