I've never had any trouble making friends, and I'm generally well liked in my school (11th grade), but I always feel like I'm someone who doesn't stand out as the most popular. I want to be the one that everyone looks to, that has presence among people. There are guys who can say something stupid, and people will still agree with them. I want girls to not just say hi but genuinely seem like they WANT me. I want to have leadership over people, how do I achieve this?