Once for a wile i will break my RO rule for this kind of questions. Guys, need a bit of advice in the field here. I've met this girl other day , during Mexican festival in my home-town , she's like 7-8 out of 10 . We've had a nice chat over the evening , this and that. After a day or two we've met in nice lounge bar(i've asked her , she said she is busy in return i've nah-ed and then she suddenly said yes ). After this diner she does seem to have interest in chats , long calls but not meet-ups anymore. I'm not that stupid and can guess that i've not passed some of her shit tests. So question is hard or soft next ? I doubt i can spare some time to convince her to something.