"You are judging me right now, aren't you? I can feel it" Do you always Agree and Amplify?

MisplacedSanityP · 2018-10-31T17:56:30+00:00

A girl who has casual sex at all is a red flag. A girl who has had a lot of casual sex is a no-go.

You’re friend is what we call a slut. We don’t listen to sluts about what’s right and what’s wrong in a relationship

MattyAnon · 2018-10-31T18:12:43+00:00

A&A isn't a universal shit test response. It's one of the best all rounders, but not always best.

I was thinking something like "Hey, if I judge you, it applies to me as well"

The best plan here is to deflect. If you're not judging her you are weak, if you do judge her then she feels judged. Neither is good. So avoid it.

"You're judging me right now, I can feel it" / "Blue is such a pretty colour don't you think?"

"No, I mean you are judging me... stop ignoring this point" / "Or maybe red. Red could look good on you".

Does a girl lose potential to be an LTR if she engages in casual sex till the guy commits?

I don't do LTR because I don't like any of the options. I'm not going to be exclusive with a girl if another guy fucked her for free. I'm also not going to be exclusive with a girl who isn't fucking me.

So I'm not going to wait for sex, and I'm not going to date a girl who fucks me quickly. Hence I don't date.

That's my solution, but yours is up to you. Just never commit so deeply that you can't walk away.

Can I not expect a girl to be monogamous before we get engaged?

Ok, I think I can help you out here:

DO NOT MARRY

ChadFromColumbus · 2018-10-31T19:57:06+00:00

Sounds like a rare case where her actions, being a slut, actually match her words. She straight up told you she’s a ho and is not relationship material.

What you should do is fuck her like the slut she is, wrap it up, and enjoy your turn.

goblinboglin · 2018-10-31T20:55:34+00:00

agree and amplify or just ignore it with amused mastery

pame12 · 2018-10-31T23:03:30+00:00

I think the "yeah judging you so hard, reality tv producers are offering me a role" is much better than the other one you wanted to use.

Title	"You are judging me right now, aren't you? I can feel it" Do you always Agree and Amplify?
Author	JesterBLB
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	October 31, 2018 5:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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