Questions? And when you've run out of things to say.

clarityxd · 2013-12-19T19:55:47+00:00

All you have to do is Ask a question and listen to the response then go off of it.

Theres no magic answer. Just Listen to them.

surfinfan21 · 2013-12-19T22:42:49+00:00

What do you do when you talk to you guy friends. Don't treat woman any differently. Make fun of them when they stay stupid shit. Laugh only when they say something funny. And enjoy their company.

2013-12-19T22:52:56+00:00

Don't ask questions, just talk. Some options:

Comment on the decor
Talk about what you did last weekend
Share a funny story
Comment on the bartenders's clothes
Make a statement about yourself ("My favorite color is purple")
Your favorite sexual position
Japanese Anime Porn
Whatever

The trick her is that you are giving her things to talk about. People are bored by conversation when they don't have anything to say.

This works a lot better than rapid-fire questions. Rapid fire questions backfire because a) You seem boring (you're not saying anything) b) people hate being asked a non-genuine question.

Example of a non-genuine question:

You: Hi, my name's Jon
Her: Hi, my name's Jane
You: So where do you work Jane?
Her: I work at ____
You: Oh wow that's really cool!

She will sense that you're not really interested where she works, but that you're asking for your own interests, or because you don't know what to say, etc. It's a "Filler" question. You want to talk to her so you're asking her questions to keep the conversation going. The fact that you think her work is cool doesn't matter because you weren't interested in where she worked before you asked.

Example of a genuine question:

You: Hi, my name's Jon
Her: Hi, my name's Jane
You: So I just walked her from downtown, it's gross outside.
Her: Ugh, I know. I walked here from work.
You: Where do you work?
Her: I work at _____
You: Oh wow that's really cool!

This shows that you are genuinely interested in her because she brought up the topic of work and it piqued your interest. Now its more meaningful that you think her work is cool because you were interested before she answered. It's a very subtle difference but at the end of the day it comes back down to the golden rule of making people like you: make them feel important.

2013-12-20T14:27:45+00:00

How do you get a genuine interest in talking to someone and have more to talk about?

Stop spouting sounds from your mouth for the sake of making sounds. Talk about the things that interest you. Maybe you're genuinely interested in where she's from and etc., but that shit has to be genuine. Not conversational filler.

When you emit positive emotions, she'll start to feel good as well, making her more conversational, receptive to your advances, etc.

Necronomiconomics · 2013-12-22T23:48:53+00:00

Everybody has one thing (or more) that inspires them and excites them and interests them. That's the topic you're looking for, to ask questions about.

Sometimes, the ONLY topic that interests them is themselves. If you choose to pursue such people, good luck.

Title	Questions? And when you've run out of things to say.
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Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	December 19, 2013 7:53 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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