Alright, so after lurking for almost a year, I need some insight from you guys. A little bit of info:
17 years old, almost 18, living in the Netherlands, and I go to college in Amsterdam. I still live with my parents, in a fairly small town about an hour away from Amsterdam. My parents are pretty strict (religious), and I'm kind of sure they wouldn't appreciate it if I brought home girls. They might tolerate one if they knew I was committed, but if I brought home another one soon after that, I'm sure they'll start asking questions. I'm thinking of moving to Amsterdam next schoolyear, to be more independent overall, and it would help save me some time (1 hour travelling time to school)
Now onto the part about seduction:
I always used to be okay with girls. By okay I mean, I'm good at socializing, I can hold a conversation pretty easily, but there's not much escalation going on. That's kind of my weakest point, and the part I'm still struggling with to this day. When I found out about Seddit, I read pretty much all of the sidebar in a couple of days, and watched a few highly recommended videos. I can honestly say that my Inner Game has improved tremendously since then.
However, I still don't really have luck with girls. I don't meet new women quite often. It's mostly the girls I know from class and work, and that's pretty much it. I've spoken to a lot of them, and befriended quite a lot of them, but I can't for the life of me get past that. Kino is a bit out of the question at work, but I do use it at school sometimes (high fives, hugs, touching hair, etc.) I sometimes meet girls at parties and establish good rapport, kino, etc., but I can't go past that. I've had many occasions where a buddy would later tell me that said girl "really digged me" Well, fuck. When I do get their number, I usually end up having long ass conversations for weeks/months, which most of the girls respond well to, but won't get me any further than that.
So basically, I have trouble with meeting new women and escalating, and I kind of also feel a bit of pressure when things get serious, since I know I can't bring them home or something. Any advice would be appreciated.
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