Tsup,

I have been a reddit lurker for quite a long time now, and the lack of practical advices is a shame. I have read an inimaginable amount of posts, articles and books on seduction, but I always had to come up with some sort of "trick" to keep in mind constantly, and that will help me immidietly in my daily life.

Reddit has contributed a lot to becoming the person I am today, and I'll be forever grateful for that. I decided that from now on it is my duty to give back to the community and help anyone in need, just like I was given genuine advice with no other goal than to help people like me, with nothing expected in return.

I was always thrilled by my father's personnality. He's a very fun guy to be around, rarely serious (only when it really matters) and he deals with life with such an ease that it seems like nothing can ever get to him. What I found really fascinating is that, me and my brothers could NEVER disrespect him, yet he was always creating fun out of nowhere, even making fun of himself.

That made me think. This is the perfect state to be socially in. Respected and loved by all, genuinly nice yet very fun to be around. When I try to be a fun person, it usually lowers my value.

The human brain is a very complex and sophisticated engine. I wont get into much details, but the thing is that you can actually ACT a person, and slowly become him. What I tried to do is to act like i'm the father of all of my friends, and it does wonders. I would :

  • Be genuinly nice to people, always try to help them.

  • Not try to prove myself, a good father isn't trying to show his sons that he's dominant, try to impose himself on them. It is implicitly implied.

  • Be fun and outgoing, never bitch or whine about anything. You are above all wordly problems.

  • Always be positive

  • ...

Just try and impersonate this character. Another level you can reach is visualize the perfect "you" and immidietly become him. I haven't had much success with this, since this person is not physical, he doesn't exist which makes it hard to "imitate" him.

You can imagine you're a specific comedian. Your subconcious already knows the manneurisms and the reactions of that person, and you'll be significantly funnier.

You can imagine you're a president giving a speach, when you're in the classroom or in a work meeting. You'll be 100% confident on your ability to captivate people attentions and convince them of your ideas.

The only advice I could give you is to choose a SPECIFIC person, that you know very well.

(Not an native english speaker, learned that language from nothing to this in about 6months, sorry for any potential mistakes)