Hey fellas. Happy near year. I was having a quandary about how to make oneself feel grounded, down to earth and bondable with women.

Coming from my own experience I have accumulated a lot of knowledge and a lot of esoteric interests in my time and I use this understanding to approach and bond with women that I like.

The problem is that my speech is a bit complex at times and the things I talk about seem to sync up with many of my interests and thus I find myself separated from many women. I've been told I sound insincere when I'm obviously caring quite deeply and that I can't be taken as a real caring individual because of my voice, my speech, as well as other things that I'm probably not aware of.

How do you fellas deal with this? Do you have these problems? How do you all parse through the muck to bond with people?