So I haven't been in a relationship since high school(2011), mostly due to my inability to talk to women but also due to the fact that it seems the best place to find women is out at bars/clubs which are places I don't usually enjoy going to. All of this coupled with a severe lack of self-confidence and "friends" who constantly put me down for not "manning" up and just walking over to talk to a girl has put me in a pretty crappy state of mind.

I guess I'm just seeking advice on where to look for/how to engage women as an introvert.

Also I'm 5'7", 130 pounds w/ fairly toned body. I feel my looks are average at best but at least I've got that going for me, which is nice. :P