Who here actually develops an emotional connection with some of the girls they pick up?

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-01-31T03:13:49+00:00

One of the basic ideas of pickup is that if anything is going to happen with you and the woman, it's going to happen fast, or else you will get friend zoned. And it's easier to start a sexual relationship first, than it is to start an emotional relationship and take it sexual. So you seduce first, and then you take the relationship any direction you want. It's pretty obvious that any satisfying relationship with a woman is going to have a strong sexual element, and you must be sexually compatible. So that's where we go first.

Also consider, we find out what we want from relationships by getting into relationships. We explore what kind of women we want, what we want from women in our relationships, and probably most importantly, we find out what kind of person we become when we're in a relationship. So most of us want freedom to explore a variety of relationships.

2014-01-31T02:51:46+00:00

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cody_au · 2014-02-01T17:33:38+00:00

God you're naive.

One thing that I want to ask is, are all these girls that you guys are picking up really that disposable?

Ask every person in the world and half will give you each answer, yes and no. Every person goes after what they want. You decide what you want and go for it. Anything else doesn't affect you so don't even think about it.

I know that it's a numbers game, I get it.

No you don't. That first thousand or more are literally 5-10-15-30-60-120+ minute interactions of just talking to someone. The girls remember these as fun times. Nothing bad happens. Then you make a mistake, the interaction is over, and you both move on.

But I've yet to see anything about someone talking about how they picked up an awesome chick and it turned into something more.

Almost the entire original seduction community settled down. That's why they aren't around anymore. Yes some made it a business and so could not settle down. Some simply never wanted to settle down nor should they if they don't want to.

I really don't get you. This is about meeting someone and starting a relationship. Anything beyond that point, whether you don't want it, piss it away, fuck it up, or do your best to make it work and base your entire life around it, is up to you and your personal decisions.

Like anything else in life you can be an amazing fucking giver while meeting women, or a scum-sucking dirtbag (no offense to the fuckers-and-chuckers, for the most part those women know what they are getting into). Nothing has changed.

Title	Who here actually develops an emotional connection with some of the girls they pick up?
Author	cantfindan1
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	January 31, 2014 2:23 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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