is it worthwhile or not worthwhile? is it some weak-ass slow game? does it paint you as too much of a provider or not? does it paint you as a chode? is it too traditional or not? i ask because i just got the idea to bring it up to somebody and thought it could show that i have a little romantic side to me but i feel like it is pretty weak. has it worked for my fellow playas out there? i ask this question without making the assumption that being somebody's valentine makes you spend substantial $ or tip a fedora and say m'lady and all that.