Let me put this out there right up front. My LTR is a non western girl as far as beliefs and culture goes. She comes from a Lebanese family and they are very conservative. I am a straight, white , American man who grew up Christian but now live a pretty secular lifestyle.

She's constantly talking about how she can't let them know we are seeing each other and does her best to keep it secret to the point she even deletes flirty comments I will make on her facebook page. yada yada...

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Anyway, she's perfectly content though to take my $ to help with rent if I offer it and I've helped her buy a bed recently too. Sounds to me like I'm beta bux . I confronted her on the keeping me a secret stuff and that issue just brought to light the fact I feel like she's just using me for money. I'm going to have a conversation with her maybe tomorrow or the next day after I soft next her for a few days. Depending on how this goes she's probably going to get demoted to plate if she's still willing to fuck me or she's going to get hard nexted. Do you think that's a good way to handle it ?

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