Hi guys! This is my first field report, so please let me know what kind of information I can give you that would make this be better.
TL;DR I F-closed a mexican girl that I picked up from a carnival. Logistics are very important. Key things I learned after part 3.
The night started with a friend coming to my apartment with some people I didn't know. As a good host, I served them a shot of tequila and went to pickup some girls and their friends to get the night started.
First part of the night
We started by taking a funny mexican taxi with 11 people, 4 girls (all of them apparently dating by looking at the way they'd interact with other dudes) and the rest was the girls' dates, some random dudes and the initial 3 guys that came to my apartment, who by the time were giving me high fives and offering me booze (because of the way I treated them in my house). This caused a respect effect with the guys I didn't know, so I just kept things nice and tried to win the group so they could help me later that night. This was absolutely important for the later outcome.
Second part of the night
I tried to keep things cool, asked the right questions and created a good ambient within the guys I didn't know by then. We went to a carnival in the streets; the place was completely crowded and there were... just infinite girls to go with, it was like a girl buffet (with a lot of sausages as well). We started walking, since there was no way to stop I would just make eye contact with every girl walking in the opposite direction, trying to look for a hot girl walking by herself. This didn't quite happen, so I decided to stop in a place where all of us could dance and lead the group into doing funny things and have fun. It worked out perfectly.
Part three (interesting part comes here)
You never know who's watching, seriously. I started grabbing girls who were passing by and smiled at our group, we were having fun. I didn't ask them to join us, I would just grab them and bring them to dance. It worked with all of them because the energy was really good and everyone was laughing. All of these girls didn't stay for long (2 minutes, tops), so I tried to escalate really quickly by moving them around, touching them in a playful manner, and most would get drawn into the group effect, plus everybody who was behind me while walking there (a lot of people) saw girls looking at me because of the eye contact, so every time there was a new girl, all of the group would cheer and cooperate (this was brilliant, they started asking me how I did that and why I didn't try to talk to them; my answer: I'm waiting for the one). I even danced for 30 seconds with a chubby girl who was just glowing after that, she had a lot of fun with us.
Key things I learned from this are:
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Have fun, don't take yourself too seriously and act like you don't have an agenda. Everything is just a coincidence and things should be left to unfold on their own (and of course, that's not certainly true, but it should look like that).
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Acknowledge everybody. That night everyone was my friend, and it payed off in ways you wouldn't imagine. Every time I pulled a girl into the group, guys would surround us and clap while we danced (this created a lot of attention, so mysteriously, girls would walk in our direction on the way to the other part of the carnival). In simple words, be the host of the party, make sure everyone is having fun. Focus on the high energy people.
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Don't make it awkward. Sometimes a girl would just let me spin her once and then she would leave. I didn't try to grab her back to the group when this happened and every time there was another girl coming our way. An abundance mentality is key because, in the end, it's true.
Part four, opened by a girl
I was looking a couple of groups away to a couple and there was this mexican girl, brown eyes, brown skin, nice tits, good body, she was wearing a lot of make up (really common in mexico) so she looked like an 8. I made eye contact with here several times until I saw she was with someone. I didn't care and kept having fun; some minutes later, she came and introduced herself. We'll call her Maria. Maria said I was really hot and wanted to introduce herself. And now, when this kind of things happen (and it's great), I've learned that I still need to be a challenge and be attractive. If I want to have sex I need to play by the rules, so first thing was to introduce her AND her friend to the group and dance and have fun. The group realized she was the one I was looking for the night, so I basically had a group of 11 people being my wingmen. Played it by the book, I didn't assume attraction though, so I didn't skip it to rapport. I DHV'd by saying that I was having a great time and pointed at my friends, they noticed and yelled, jumped and just did high energy stuff, to which she laughed and said: "I saw a lot of girls dancing with you". There you go, pre-selection works. So I had attraction going, we exchanged names (because I consider names and information to be a part of rapport building/comfort). I only had to escalate; I just started moving in closer to her and see if she would move away or move her face; she didn't and I kissed her. It was time to bounce.
Part 5 and final
Since I wanted to have sex with this girl, I moved the group towards another part of the carnaval to see a mexican band. We grabbed some beers and I talked to his friend, briefly. He wasn't very alpha, but seemed like a nice guy, so I offered him if he wanted me to find a girl for him, he replied he had a girlfriend and they were waiting for more people to join them, but he was okay with her staying with me and the group. He shortly left. The place was getting crowded and staying together was getting hard, so I asked her to walk me. I was walking towards a taxi to bring her home. She asked me and she said she wasn't coming with me. I just ignored that and I started talking about how hungry I was and how much awesome food I could cook home. I just didn't stop, I didn't give her a chance to say no, and she wouldn't stop grabbing my hand. I asked her who she was living with and she said she was living with a friend, but she was there, so I just said: "so my apartment it is, do you know how to cook?" and yet she'd still say she wouldn't come home. So I repeated, tried to play it cool as much as possible until I found a taxi. I opened the door for her and said "after you." She hoped into the taxi, we came to our apartment and I tried to get rid of LMR by offering her a drink and talk about stuff and kiss her between subjects. I wasn't too far away, nor too close, I used a lot of triangular gaze, and every time I went for a kiss I'd escalate sexually, a little bit more, and then stop. I wouldn't use lines like "we shouldn't be doing this", but "this feels good", and then stop. Suddenly, her phone gets a msg, I grab her phone for her and she was basically talking with a lot of female friends, the msg she got was something along the lines of :"OMG!!!! GO FOR IT", so she got her friends approval for a one night stand. I moved full on after that and we had awesome sex. We didn't exchange numbers, we didn't exchange last names. She said it was the best sex of her life.
Key things I learned here:
- Once a girlfriend told me: "Guys give love for sex, girls give sex for love". I don't necessarily disagree, but I think it is more along the lines of "girls who are in love have better orgasms". I asked her a few times not to fall in love with me. Every time I kissed her in my apartment I said that. To which she replied "I've never fallen in love." Seduction has its romantic part as well, so I loved her for the night, I made her feel special by the way I was touching her.
The morning after she just looked at me like she was in love. So, I don't know if you've had this problem when you can't make a girl go in a subtle way, so I said to her: "you should stay", but I started doing house choirs, like cleaning and throwing the clothes I took off right there back to my room. She realized it was time to go, thanked me for an amazing night, and left.
Thanks for reading, hope you enjoyed it!
EDIT: Formatting, grammar.
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