Hey guys, long timer lurker here. Standard seddit disclaimer: I am no PUA by any means, but I've used the tools and concepts from seddit to bring a string of great ladies into my life. With each girl I like to write down the things I did right, and what lessons I've learned. I just got out of my first real LTR and this lesson was so important that I felt compelled to share it with seddit:

Actually transition from gaming a girl to a loving relationship. Once the love is there, dial back the games in a huge way. No more casual 2 hour text delays, feigning disinterest, and waiting for her to make advances just to maintain control and power. You're not letting the girl get comfort, and she will leave. Its not fair to her--its immature. By the time I love you's and stuff start coming out, you've more than done your job attracting her. Now let her have you, all of you. Be warm. You still have to stay within the borders of clingyness/smothering, but you need to let her feel loved. Quit trying to have all the power and share.

I hope this improves a relationship or two for you guys. The problem in my relationship was that I kept trying to game, and never let my girlfriend feel the warm, intimate love that should define a serious relationship, even after multiple complaints from her that 'something was missing' and that she didn't feel loved. She broke up with me two days ago after 1 year of this, and I feel awful for depriving her of a comforting, loving relationship for so long. Learn from my mistake guys!