My ex broke up with me after 3 years of dating. It has been so long since I've been single, I need some help.

2014-03-17T05:26:39+00:00

Now every time I try to talk to someone I'm attracted to, I keep over thinking things and trying to find the right words to impress her. I feel that I'm trying too hard and she can see that.

Instead of initiating a conversation with a goal of impressing her, initiate it with the goal of learning about her.

epicshift · 2014-03-17T12:10:49+00:00

See if you can identify what feelings or fears are coming up when you want to talk to someone you're attracted to, what the root cause may be and then work on clearing those feelings and fears. They may be linked to your breakup in some way in terms of bringing up an old emotion involving lack of self confidence, self worth or the like.

bl1y · 2014-03-17T12:18:13+00:00

I'm removing this post because the problem is overbroad. It's basically "explain how to talk to women."

Read the basics, and get a lot more experience under your belt. Come back when you have more specific sticking points.

Title	My ex broke up with me after 3 years of dating. It has been so long since I've been single, I need some help.
Author	Votable_Alien
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	March 17, 2014 5:06 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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