what is the best way to learn the game?

jahvoncreamcone · 2014-03-26T21:34:41+00:00

What makes a pokemon evovle?

-Experience

The_Thane_Of_Cawdor · 2014-03-26T14:49:49+00:00

Go out in a social setting and learn from experience

2014-03-26T22:07:17+00:00

Similar to most board/drinking games. You can spend forever being taught the rules and what not, but nothing beats what you learn in the first 5 minutes of playing.

D1opare · 2014-03-26T15:06:01+00:00

Stop looking for excuses. Books can be fantastic tools, but they are merely tools. If you learn from them, great. If you don't learn from them, then you learned what doesn't work. You still learn.

Stop looking for a "best" way, because you're turning that into an excuse. "This isn't the best way to learn, so I'm not going to waste time doing it". Nonsense. You're not even doing it in the first place. Just do it.

But to answer your question, go out and practice. Real-life experience is the best way to learn pick up. Books can only show you the path. Experience shows you how to walk the path.

2014-03-26T19:31:50+00:00

"The Game" is just a damn entertaining book to read. Not a whole lot should be taken from it outside of the fact that ANYBODY can become good with women.

If nothing else it will inspire you to seek out social adventures where you will learn the old fashioned way(best way)

neo-nonpua · 2014-03-27T02:31:09+00:00

"Books aren't meant for me"?

Try audio books. Or get professional help if you seriously feel like your attention span disables you to the extent that you can't read. Seriously -- imagine having to learn everything from experience rather than having a map to guide you. You will literally waste years of your life compared to a few hours spent devouring a worthwhile text.

Read one book that seems to fit your personality. Then go practice in the field (i.e. real life). Take notes. Re-read your notes. Go practice. Take notes. Learn. Over time, you'll start to see trends in your notes and from experience. Maybe you'll find a different book or school of thought more useful. Read or listen to that book. Then go practice in the field. Take notes. Etc.

Some books are a scam. Some experiences will mislead you if you don't have any way of seeing the world aside from your typical approach (that clearly isn't working yet). Find reliable sources rather than throwing away books as if knowledge was evil or that all the useful information from '90/'80 doesn't exist because your attention span is deficient. Improve your attention span and everything else will improve as well.

ArtistBlock · 2014-03-27T03:01:25+00:00

The best way is to just approach and see what happens. You may be successful, you may not be. In the end you're taking that step forward to become better at game. Reading and studying about game is great. You learn a lot but if that's all you do you're going to be stuck going in circles, never moving forward. You could read EVERYTHING about seduction but if you don't make that first move it'll be a waste of time. You'll be so nervous that all that knowledge of seduction that you've been reading will go out the window. So the best thing to do is take a break from reading seduction and resume AFTER YOU APPROACH.

Title	what is the best way to learn the game?
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Date	March 26, 2014 2:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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