When I meet any typical attractive girl I want to sleep with.. I'll try to f-close her asap which will basically mean I'm gonna talk dirty subtly to her over text and snapchat preceding the meet, and then I'll be making the moves on her willy nilly when we're together. This has never resulted in anything more than just being fwb's.

But what happens when you meet a good girl.. I've always had the mindset like you should f-close a girl asap so they don't pigeonhole you as the provider.. but is it actually possible to turn them into something more if you like them. Because in getting them to feel comfortable with sex on first date.. wouldn't you have had to disqualify yourself from being boyfriend material? And maybe you missed the opportunity to get to know the good girl better because they weren't comfortable with sex on first date and you didn't pursue it any further..

TL;DR: what do you do differently when its a good girl who you don't just want to bang?