I slept with this chick around a year ago. A week later slept with her again. Didn't think much of it, but when she drove me home next day she told me she had a boyfriend she lived with. So she was basically cheating on him with me. I was shocked and we didn't talk since then. I then randomly met her last night outside the bar when she was going to get a cab. We just had a short chat, i went home. I get home and she texts me "hey, like, i'm really sorry about everything". I asked what she meant but she avoided answering. I asked if she had a bf and she said "i mean, i don't know.." So it either means she has a bf and she wants to cheat, or she is talking to someone but they aren't official. Could be either of those. Well, i then asked her if she texted me because she wanted me to come over, and she said "i do want that, but you can't, my kid is home this weekend". I then told her to come to my place instead. (I was horny as hell lol) She hesitated, asked where i lived, LMR (told me she couldn't afford a taxi bla bla, just stalling). She said i should have asked her when we talked at the cab, but i just said i didn't think she was interested. She said the same. Then she said "what about tomorrow? netflix and chill?". We talked a bit more and i tried a last attempt at convincing her to come over, but she had fallen asleep and didn't answer. She answered me briefly earlier today that she fell asleep.

So, i'm considering if i should make an attempt at netflix and chill and ask her to come over, but i'm not sure if it's wise. I am confident that i don't want anything more from this girl than occasional sex. I am talking to other girls, but none of them have potential for me to ask them to come over, really. She has a kid at the school where i work (i'm a teacher), but not in my class. I'm worried about doing it because of:
- She might still have a bf and wants to cheat on him with me. Which i don't want any part of.
- Since i don't want anything more than sex, i need her to understand that too, and i'm not sure how to handle it
- I also live in a small-town, where lots of people know eachother, and rumours spread fast if people talk.

Should i just jack off and take a cold shower instead?