Someone please comment the person who came up with this analogy. It isnt mine. When you enter the world to pickup think of lows and highs as part of the emotional rollercoaster which you are taking the girl on. Ultimately there will be pulling, rejection, fun dancing, guys looking at you in a weird way, being confident, being self conscious. I think its good to get as many emotions going through you as possible because it doesnt only make you adaptable but more hardened as well. Il end with this. Dont jump in expecting the last 5 minutes of the movie (sex). Instead remember the journey and the buildup to that. The longer the better. You have an infinite number of girls and time.