How to avoid going back to the old AFC ways?

Potz666 · 2014-04-29T09:43:39+00:00

I think a lot of guys see being in a relationship as the destination when in reality it's just a part of the journey.

Keep focused on self improvement / inner game - If you are constantly upping your value/self worth then the woman you are seeing will be more likely to stay interested. Worst case if the relationship ends you won't need to dig yourself out of a pit of low value. You often hear about people "letting themselves go" when they are in a relationship, they put on tons of weight, stop exercising and get lost in the other person.
Have other interests and hobbies outside of the relationship - This keeps you interesting and allows you to divest your self worth. It's great to have shared hobbies but you need to keep some of the mystery
Lead - In traditional gender roles as the male it's your job to be assertive and lead the relationship for the majority of the time. You don't need to dominate but you do need to take the lead for the most part. In general a woman doesn't want this role but will take it if needed and she will end up resenting you for it. This article explains in more detail.
Don't stop seducing her - Just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you can sit back and relax. Keep it interesting!

Check out Mark Manson's book, Models to get an understanding of the process behind attraction.

EliahtheMessiah · 2014-04-29T09:39:05+00:00

2 steps:

Don't mastrubate
Approach 1 new girl everyday - taking her number and deleting it after the interaction.

Title	How to avoid going back to the old AFC ways?
Author	Afeni02
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Date	April 29, 2014 1:52 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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