[Question] The morals of dating multiple girls.

2014-05-04T15:28:09+00:00

Nobody can make that decision but you, you say it feels wrong so, don't do anything where you feel wrong.

Having said that, think about what is the fair thing to do, fair to everyone.

There's a point in time in every relationship where one of the two people involved brings up the issue of exclusivity, that is a crucial point, the fair thing is that until both parties in a relationship have agreed on being exclusive, they are not exclusive.

So, since you posted in here, evidently looking for feedback, here's my comment: go ahed on those dates, no need to say anything to anyone unless specifically asked; don't ask either. At any point in time you feel the need to be exclusive with someone, bring up the subject.

bl1y · 2014-05-04T11:34:03+00:00

Do girls look down upon guys who date multiple women?

Depends on the girls, and it depends on how serious things are getting.

As for the morals, like CurveBall said, that's up to you to decide.

puaCurveBall · 2014-05-04T08:57:49+00:00

First: We don't do morals here. We are focused on practical ways to improve skills, not how those skills are applied.

Second: Until you've AGREED to be exclusive, you aren't exclusive. This is basic communication skills 101.

If it feels wrong, then don't do it. Its entirely up to you to decide how you feel about it. I personally say unless you are being dishonest, then all is fair.

I regularly date 3-5 women, girls love it imho. Nothing wrong at all.

APXEBATOP · 2014-05-04T15:21:27+00:00

I like Mark Manson's philosophy, you should not care what women think about you, that, is being invested too much, thus unattractive. If you like both girls, you like both girls, be open about it, if they're not cool with it then that's OK, why do what you don't like? Anyway I cannot elaborate as good as he does, so highly recommend reading his book: Models.

2014-05-04T17:34:56+00:00

Solid tips, thank guys.

rangamatchstick · 2014-05-04T15:56:16+00:00

sounds like you have a clear case of "one iteis", gotta let go of the idea that has been shoved into your brain since you were 3 that you should only be with one girl at a time. Sure this applies to committed relationships but if your not in one its all free game.

Title	[Question] The morals of dating multiple girls.
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Date	May 4, 2014 6:43 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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