I was at the mall to practice some day game. A cute girl walked by me so I walked behind her and...
Me: Excuse me, green shirt!
(she turns around)
Me: Could you tell me where Pacsun is?
Her: Oh yeah it's right over..
Me: Honestly I just wanted to meet you because I thought you were cute what're you up to?
Shes receptive, we kind of just shoot the shit for a little bit, not really leading anywhere. I had good eye contact, tonality, open body language, was pretty comfortable overall. Then she says that she has to buy something for mothers day and has to go, I made the mistake of letting that happen and not at least trying for an instant date, so I get her number. I text her back right away...
Me: Hey this is zach, it was nice meeting you
Her: haha you too ya caught me off guard
Me: haha u did fine
Me: I'm only gonna be here another 4 or 5 days before going home for the summer, lets hangout tomorrow
Her: Ohh where do you live?
Me: (place - 8 hours away), wbu?
Her: Like 10 minutes from here in ____.. it's a small town lol
Me: Small town? U aren't a hick are u? U have a stuffed deer in your room, don't you?
Her: Well I do work on a farm but no I don't have a stuffed deer in my room lol I have shot and gut open one though
Me: Woah. You're a rugged mountain lady lol
(no response for half an hour)
Me: So whatre u doing tomorrow/wednesday?
And she never got back to me.
I definitely know of some things I could have done better, for example I didn't touch her at all, our conversation was kind of just flutter, random topics, I wasn't sexual at all, and there are probably more.
Overall though I'm glad about it. I had the balls to approach and it was a good, solid approach, my demeanor was confident, I wasn't in my head or trying to think of the right thing to say to get the right reaction, and I went for the number.
I could use some help though with this, though. Could anyone help point out any mistakes? I'm not totally sure where I went wrong, asides from the things I already mentioned could have been better.
I'm a bit confused about it but I'm not worried about it, I'm going to keep approaching and I'll get better with time.
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