Talking too fast

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-06-12T12:18:58+00:00

The general theory is that speaking fast means you're in a hurry to get your message across before people stop listening to you. It seems tryhard. People will actually listen to you more carefully if you slow down.

Yes, speak lower and slower, especially when becoming more intimate, one on one.

MetaMainer · 2014-06-12T11:24:11+00:00

As long as it's clear and confident; it's no problem.

joshsway · 2014-06-12T14:05:54+00:00

It depends on the situation. You should strive to have a bunch of tools at your disposal, including speaking fast, slow, and medium. Fast speech has it's place (it makes you seem more intelligent often times) but sometimes, being able to talk slow is useful as well. Learn to do both.

princenotsocharming · 2014-06-12T14:46:46+00:00

I have the same problem, also I nod my head in approval more than necessary and I smile more than necessary. I think the first step is to be aware that we have this problem. Something akin to Conscious Incompetence. I wish I could provide a solution but I have no clue. But Kudos to you for trying to do something about it.

Peternormous · 2014-06-13T01:18:18+00:00

YankeeProblems

bepositivemate · 2014-06-15T12:54:38+00:00

Napstar? Do you have a time machine?

Merica911 · 2014-06-12T12:40:30+00:00

Download your favorite slow song off of Napster, rip a cd, plug in your portable CD player into your car cigarette lighter, and start singing along with it.

Title	Talking too fast
Author	krayshawl
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	June 12, 2014 10:28 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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