When a girl brings her brother to a club

2014-06-14T17:52:46+00:00

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WildN0X · 2014-06-14T17:47:07+00:00

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VaporFlight · 2014-06-14T20:01:49+00:00

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puaCurveBall · 2014-06-14T20:16:15+00:00

What is your first reaction to hearing she brought her brother? Personally, I'd laugh and make fun of her for cockblocking herself.

I'd ask what if Justin Timberlake (or whoever) was in the club, she was going to have a shit time because there is no way she's going home with him with her brother there.

So what you are doing is presenting a frame that her brother is going to stop anything from happening, and then she'll fight against that frame and being like "No he is cool, I can make out with whoever I want, and I can go home with someone".

After this, you have implicit permission that you can escalate without issues, because she's agreed that it wouldn't be a hinderance. That, and bring the brother into the conversation, treat him with respect. Tell him he is a good brother that he is cool with his sister having fun, etc.

donwalter · 2014-06-14T21:04:11+00:00

Don't be a pussy.

2014-06-14T16:11:07+00:00

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AndroWanda · 2014-06-14T17:13:06+00:00

Next time isolate. As for being outcome independent? Realize that you won't die if you don't pull a number/make out/ smash.

kilroy123 · 2014-06-14T21:20:05+00:00

I've been in this situation a number of times. Being the big brother out with my sister(s). Honestly, I'd be annoyed if you made out with her, right in front of me.

If you walk up to me, shake my hand, and shoot the shit for a minutes. Then it's fair game to chat her up all you want. But making out right in front of me, or groping her, or something. Hell no.

zomgitsduke · 2014-06-14T22:33:18+00:00

Greet him, find him a girl, and make a friend while you're at it.

SpartanShock · 2014-06-14T22:54:01+00:00

It's all good bro! Shove those thoughts away and be like ha! I had her first. Whatever! There's more fish out there. Wish them happiness and move on.

Don't let that shit kill your vibe.

2014-06-14T16:53:42+00:00

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Title	When a girl brings her brother to a club
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	11
Comments	21
Date	June 14, 2014 4:05 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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