i cant hear very well and i feel insecure talking to girls cause i'm afraid that i want hear them or ill say ''WHAT'' to much. How should i over come it and tell them i cant hear well.

I'v been learning the game for about 3 years now and it was easy when i was in school but now i'm going out to clubs and bars and the music is really loud and i can't always hear what people are saying. i cant hear out of one ear and the other ear i can only hear about 80% of what i should be able to. sometimes it just hard to keep the conversation going cause i didn't hear her in some cases it helped me get the girl but most of the time it fucks every thing up.