The Fappening Inspired Post - What is your opinion on sexting and texting/snapchatting nudes?

2014-09-01T14:07:43+00:00

Can we stop with the 'alpha male' stuff, you cannot fit every man in the world into two categories of alpha and beta. Texting/messaging should be short, flirty and done with the intention of meeting up in the near future. Asking for nudes is a big no-no outside of a relationship (or possibly fwb), you're trying to sleep with this girl not jack off to her. It seems needy, if she is interested in that stuff, she will initiate it. If you want nudes and no sex, stick with escalating on snapchat, if you want to form real connections and have real physical intimacy, meet up quickly and escalate in person.

jazzmanlover · 2014-09-01T12:30:44+00:00

I think that it's a trap because many girls try to "keep it real". in practice it means for a lot of them to not take guys in tinder/snap and stuff seriously. if it comes after you've already fucked as a way to have some fun why not, but actually trying to attract girls on these sounds beta. i think seddit likes to keep texting short and advocates more IRL action too. plus, a real alpha male bangs chicks he doesn't fap to them on snapchat or w/e, in fact a real alpha male doesn't even have those petty apps. it's a waste of time

2014-09-01T12:46:11+00:00

I find it all bull shit. If she'll send me nudes that means that she would engage in sexual intercourse. However if she's sending nudes and not willing to sleep with me then she's a tease, and if escalated for too long she's a waste of my time.

Do tl;dr if she's sending you nudes skip the sending back and just drill her.

mcquinn7 · 2014-09-01T17:42:25+00:00

It's interesting, I think girls only do this for guys they are attracted to and have had a bit of a thing with... You see those retarded videos by that Downton Abbey actress, she was all like baby this baby that.... I think these people are at least in mini-relationships, the chances of getting a girl to send this stuff to you without that context are slim.

This may be my self-limiting view though, I never really bother try with girls I haven't been intimate with... will be interesting to see if this opinion gets blown out of the water, and I will be happy to realign.

Title	The Fappening Inspired Post - What is your opinion on sexting and texting/snapchatting nudes?
Author	tralesso
Upvotes	10
Comments	6
Date	September 1, 2014 9:48 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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