I just cant stop being uncomfortable around girls.

2014-09-05T20:50:22+00:00

Just curious, how old are you?

etcomro · 2014-09-05T20:42:10+00:00

See the sidebar regarding 'inner game'

2014-09-05T20:49:23+00:00

Fear is the mind killer. What is there to be afraid of? Rejection? Apathy? Disgust? These are all things outside of your direct control. You can be kind, attractive, funny, etc. and a girl or guy can still dislike you for whatever reason. It's not your fault. You can't control them or their reactions. What you can control is your frame of mind.

Talk to them like you would talk to your friends. Be interested. Ask questions. Don't worry about how she will react beyond simple courtesy. Try to have fun with them like you do when you try to have fun with your friends. Girls want someone who is comfortable with them and who they are comfortable with. Don't treat them like a princess or put them on some sort of pedestal--none of them are the better than you, they're just people.

shitsfuckedupalot · 2014-09-05T23:21:34+00:00

Just remember that they're people who want to be treated like people. Dont put the pussy on a pedestal.

2014-09-06T00:49:47+00:00

Do whatever you can to improve on whatever weakness you think you have. Even I have trouble communicating with girls but I still try.

Like I try the small talk and try to wing the conversation part after. Usually I fall short after, but some girls help you out and interact back. Others just stand there like "Yep. I don't want to continue this conversation but I'm just going to pretend to look nice for you. :3" Like that has happened to me twice and I just move on.

There are other approaches I have tried and I simply messed up lol. I feel for you man.

Title	I just cant stop being uncomfortable around girls.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	September 5, 2014 8:37 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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