Sometimes I know a girl and I kinda like her but don't care too much about the outcome (I know this should be the right mindset). I often "chase" these girls more. For example, when texting and she takes too long to answer or isn't answering at all I start saying things like "come on answer me"/"give me attention, I need your attention"/"why you're online but not answering me?" Etc. When starting conversations I don't care if I was the one that started all last ones, I just start talking whenever I feel in the mood. And these girls often respond so well to this, some of them even start to want me much more that I want her.

But then, there is these other group of girls. Girls that I like and that care a bit more about the outcome. These girls I don't chase. If I text one of these girls and she takes too long to answer, I say nothing, I start to take some time to answer too. If I was the one starting the last conversation, I think twice before starting the next one. Some of these girls I even get to hook up with but never got anything more like long-term. And always get the feeling that I want them more that them want me.

So thats my question, for you guys, how do you "chase" a girl? How to chase a girl without losing value?

An analogy that I've seen in a Rsd video and makes me thing about it: If you're the Ceo of a companny like Google or Apple and wants to hire a engineer/programmer, you call him, you ask him to come visit the companny, you chase him to be part of your companny. But even without him, the companny is still one of the best of the world. So the thing is like "chase her without needing her"

Anyways. Want to hear what you guys think about.