I'll keep it short. Fuck books. Fuck videos. Stop reading infield stories about AF/BB. Instead...

Learn to dance.

Why? Because you will learn to express yourself and your feelings while being perceived as manly and you will learn to lead woman - most important factor. You will also see many different patterns in the relationship between male and female - woman want to experience pleasure and excitement while dancing - if you can give them that, they'll love you.

Alright, now to the dancing. I'm currently dancing 3 different styles:

The difference between New York and Cuban is that in NY you dance in a straight line and focus on "presenting the women" and cuban is made for dancing with normal shoes, on the beach, in the bar and is a LOT of fun. Oh and also you dance in a circle and you can do whatever you want.

  • started then with Bachata at the same time but stopped and started again 2 month ago. There are different styles - but I currently only know of 2: Sensual and Dominican.

Sensual: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUOow1vicc

Dominican: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lVfseUfniWc

  • and now recently started to dance Kizomba. While Salsa has mostly their own songs - Bachata and Kizomba often have remixes of popular and modern songs - which makes them more attractive to young people and especially hot girls. Kizomba is also pretty sexual - it doesn't has to be - but it's even better in close body contact.

Kizomba (non sensual - good for beginners): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mN1Y0fchw9I and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZbMSJRYVxsQ and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNy9aY9xfr4

Kizomba (sensual and in this video the guy dances with 2!! women): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c8nFduO7gX8

---- #Last words ----

Learning to dance is not easy. Especially for the man. The most important factor is leading which comes over time and through dancing with a lot of different woman. Here is a chart which shows the learning progress of a normal man (http://www.salsafs.com/site/assets/articles/learning_curve.jpg)

But if you stick with it - it will change your life. The amount of self confidence I gained until now is amazing and I'm not even good yet. It must be crazy when I'm on the level as some people in the videos. Oh and until you're at least decent - don't bother going for the hottest girls - just dance with every women