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How does a lonely guy make more friends or have a girlfriend

rockyrockss18 · 2014-10-23T03:43:14+00:00

I am 24 working, but I don't interact with people i don't know. I like meeting new people and wanna make new friends but somehow I feel I have...

rockyrockss18

October 23, 2014

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Title	How does a lonely guy make more friends or have a girlfriend
Author	rockyrockss18
Upvotes	3
Comments	1
Date	October 23, 2014 3:43 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2k2c68/how_does_a_lonely_guy_make_more_friends_or_have_a/
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[–]RededicateToReality 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you want your life to be dictated by your fears or by your own force of will?

Develop your force of will through consistent exercise, meditation, and healthy eating; do things you love.

A random girl will likely turn you down, but she is a random girl. It does not matter.

I recently read a book called The Black Swan by Nicholas Taleb. The book discusses many things, but one key point is: how do we maximize random events in life that have positive impacts? Many random events are terrible: car crashes, natural disaster, stock crashes; but many can be very positive.

One of these positive random events could be meeting someone new. Think of it like this:

When approaching a random girl there are (generally) three possibilities: 1)She hates you and spits in your face (not likely at all) 2)She is apathetic (more likely) 3)You hit it off and get her number.

The positive of (3) far outweighs the neutral (2) or the negative (1). Maximize your possibilities for positive Black Swans (random events that impact your life in a large way).