Is there a script to follow?

BrinksNY · 2014-10-28T00:11:27+00:00

There must be a string of sentences that get a person's attention no matter their interests?

People generally like talking about themselves. I personally have no issues asking the following "boring questions" because they open up a lot of personal and fun conversation threads.

Where are you from?
What do you do?
How do you girls know each other?

Have fun with these. Typically I'll make them into a cold read statement, which is more interesting than a basic question, but fear not, if cold reading doesn't feel comfortable, stick with the question form. For an example of a cold read, I would go "You've got this certain vibe about you - are you from X?" People cant resist finding out what others think about them, so expect them to come back with a "yeah I am/no I'm not - what made you think that?".

Further, these questions really should be asked of every girl as they also tell you her logistics situation.

themasterpuppeteer · 2014-10-27T23:40:14+00:00

Just simple things you could ask anyone are good to start a conversation rolling, where they come from, what they've done. Anything you could find mutual interest in later on in conversation

SexySmexxy · 2014-10-28T04:25:37+00:00

There must be a string of sentences that get a person's attention no matter their interests?

Bro....................................

Stop thinking of people in terms of algorithms.

just to get the ball rolling for a while until i can segway to more emotional part of the conversation.

And what part is that exactly?

I wasn't aware that the beginning of a conversation existed merely to segway into the more "emotional" part of it.

I'd recommend you try to work on just casually talking to people instead of trying to force your friendship and selfworth onto others.

recyclablebantha · 2014-10-28T12:08:30+00:00

cant think of what to say after intial greetings. I know about noticing little details but cant think of anything in the heat of the moment.

It's not about "noticing little details." Not quite, but you're close. And if you can't think of anything to say, then you're in your head. Which means you're cutting yourself off from the best source of information about what to discuss: her.

There must be a string of sentences that get a person's attention no matter their interests?

No. If there, were, someone would be selling it. And people try to sell the promise of something like this that does a magical feat. But the truth is, everyone is different and all you have to do is focus completely on them.

Honestly. Here is a video where the guy is nominally speaking about openers, but the attentiveness he describes, is the kind of thing you NEED to have throughout the conversation, because it will allow you to carry a conversation better. If you focus your attention wholly on her while she's talking, she'll give you enough to work with that you'll have something to ask about that you can go deeper into.

Do the exercise described in the video, and it will help you.....

Dogrown · 2014-10-28T02:17:54+00:00

Ford is a major thing to use as a crutch. I think its something like: Family. Occupation. Recreation. Dreams.

Also I feel like its more about how you say it than what you say. If it sounds like you are reciting canned lines a chick will know.

Title	Is there a script to follow?
Author	vgsgpz
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Date	October 27, 2014 11:28 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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