I was talking to a girl at the bar, really vibing with her and some guy who was talking to her first came over. I just introduced myself and I could tell he was getting territorial. I try shooting the shit with him to be cool and he just starts spouting some crap bordering on hate speech. I just sat there listening, trying not to deck him in the face as he was going far too long about Jewish people (I'm Jewish). I just let him make himself look like an idiot and the girl I was talking to told him to shut the fuck up. Then he starts apologizing to her and saying he's joking.

Anyway, I just noticed how easy it is to spot when a guy looks desperate now. I do it too at times but I legitimately started noticing these things once I started going out after my breakup. My breakup and my feelings for my ex are a whole other story, since I'm still open to trying again with her in the future if I see an opportunity, but that's not what I'm talking about here. I managed to start noticing how comfortable I am now when it comes to talking to other people, especially girls. The girl I was talking to last night the conversation flowed and I could tell that she was into me. I could tell how hard the guy was trying to get her attention and I noticed how she just kept talking to me the whole time. Ever since my mindset went from "going out to pick up girls" to "going out to have a fun time and meet more people," my nights out have improved 100%.

So yeah, I k-closed this girl and it was so easy. I gave her my number and just moved in for the kiss smooth as fuck.