Guys, I need an honest assessment. Here's my story in a nutshell. I've come a long way. From an insecure, bold, overweight couchpotato 2 years ago, to a fashionable, rock climbing slim guy. I still see myself as unattractive. But reality proves otherwise. So here I am, dating five women ranging from 24 to 31. All equally beautiful and fun to be with and I do not understand or ever saw the turning point of how I suddenly became this Casanova / Don Juan guy. But I love it. It feels pretty great to be wanted. It is completely new to me.

I guess I turned from an insecure guy to a ... player. It is fun like I said but at the same time it worries me. This 'good looks' (I still don't believe when girls say I am handsome and attractive) is going to end someday. And probably sooner than later. I'm 39 years old now and honestly, I feel awesome with all the validation from these great girls.

But in it lays some danger, as I see it. I don't want to feel good because a girl is interested in me. It seems like I thrive on it and I shouldn't. I'm not sure actually. I wonder if you guys out there have experienced the same. I could use some perspective.