Now this has been bothering me in the past. I used to read "Have a strong reality brah" and "Don't fall for other people's realties brah". Wtf is a strong reality? And I googled it. Didn't quite get the answer I was hoping for, but luckily I kinda got it as time passed. I'm gonna explain in hopes of helping others in my past position. So what's a strong reality? A strong reality means having a strong opinion. Strong opinion about yourself, about others. About everything as a whole. That's it. Note that by strong I mean really strong. Like think of something you're really good at. If someone tells you you're bad at it, would you believe him? No, of course not. Okay, so how do I make my own strong reality? I wanna tell you that the "Find yourself" phrase is bullshit. You dont find yourself, you create yourself and that takes time. In fact you never stop your whole lifetime. You create a strong reality about stuff by becoming good at them, therefore proving yourself a point. The point you'll prove is that youre good at the givent activity. And thats how confidence comes too.