How many of you want to be the cool and popular guy that everyone likes?

nofapfuzzy · 2014-12-07T09:30:46+00:00

Dear Bitch ,

You seem at the beginning of your journey, but far enough on your way not to be offended by being called a bitch.

I assume you posted this in the hope that your fellow internet friends will read your ramble and give you precious feedback. You are lucky today my friend. I am here to give you gold. It will hurt, but it s still gold.

1) As I said earlier you are at the beginning of your journey , you still have a long way to go. From what you wrote you clearly made progress, and you clearly need a lot more progress. THE IDEA IS THIS: The journey to greatness is never ending ( Success isn't owned. It's leased and rent is due every day." ~ J.J. Watt ) You only have one or one year and a half of studying relationships in a conscious way . I have 5 years of studying it and taking massive action and I know I still have tons to learn . PATIENCE GRASSHOPAH ! You will kick ass at 22 years old if you keep pushing them limitz .

2) Read MODE ONE by Alan R. Currie , then read his other books. After you finish reading them you will be someone else. You will not be a bitch anymore, ever. You will be a semi-God, yet you still have work to do...

3) Assume you will succeed .

4) "But sometimes I wonder, should I have just sat back and try to make myself as sociable as possible and not focus on getting girls at all, or was it better for me to put everything I've got into trying to get better with girls." Black and white ? Why not have red ?
OWN THE FACT THAT YOU LOVE PUSSY . Admit the fact that even if you were focusing on being the most sociable guy, you mind is still on the prize of PUSSY .

5) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT : Men and women will not be attracted by your social skills , that is retarded thinking. They are attracted by you as a whole . Overall look , culture , wealth , health , social skills , social proof , etc.

Men and women were, are and will be attracted to VALUE . If they find you valuable , you will be the SHIT and they will come flying in like ... well ....flies.

Develop a sense of STYLE (not fashion) , develop culture (They like an interesting person who knows at least 20 subjects of discussion) , develop health (who likes sick ppl ?) , develop wealth (money is a tool, you can use it for great things) , DEVELOP VALUE .

Those super popular guys you are talking about have value( or at least the ones who are attracted to them perceive they have value ) .

Ask good questions!!!! How can I be valuable? How can I be better ? How can I give fun? How can I give funny? How can I inspire ?

TAKE MASSIVE ACTION!!! You will be dead soon and you will cry like a bitch if you don't take action today!

Get better every day. .. . even if you read 2 pages of a book. That will make you more interesting , your reading skills will go up 0.001% , etc.

Remember the most important factor in attraction: VALUE .

CREATE VALUE !!!

PriusPimp · 2014-12-07T07:17:55+00:00

Your post is full of rationalization and assumptions.

You have no idea what's going on behind closed doors. You have no idea what's going on in their bedrooms. You have no idea what's going on at 2AM on a weekend.

Being sociable and popular gives you more opportunities to meet new women outside of your core social circle.

If these guys are good, then they're trying to keep things discreet with any girls they're sleeping with.

2014-12-07T13:43:23+00:00

You're making the massive assumption that you can't be popular and get laid at the same time. All of the most popular men I know are drowning in the pussy, because women are above all attracted to social status. Far from being totally separate, the person you are describing would be the person who gets laid the most.

2014-12-07T14:15:17+00:00

If guys like that aren't getting laid constantly, there are two simple explanations:

A. These guys don't have much of a sex drive/prioritize sex much lower

B. They simply don't know fundamental concepts of game. If they took a few months to learn the basics they'd be unstoppable. It's these guys that we call naturals. They put many of the best PUAs to shame.

baguette180 · 2014-12-07T18:18:23+00:00

Me!

A) there are more facets to life than sex/having a girlfriend

B) people skills is usually considered one do the most useful skills in becoming successful

C) it sounds fun as fuck to have that life

D) when new hot girls are brought to me through my social circle Id just joke with them then keno escalate a bit to gauge interest and if they were interested (which I they probably would be since I'm the coolest guy in campus) I'd be like "let's hang out this weekend then plan something later" and her friends would be like your going out with him!!! I'm so happy for you!! He is such a great guy!!!

Obvsiously I would not go bragging about the girl I just banged because that is in bad taste and would hurt my rep with some. And I doubt I'd even care about the validation because id be having way more than enough having hundreds of friends and having parties thrown in my honer.

That has worked for me with my social circle and I'm not like famously popular.

Title	How many of you want to be the cool and popular guy that everyone likes?
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Date	December 7, 2014 6:59 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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